How to Choose and Use Erotic Spanking Paddles

From vibrating dildos to many different vibrators, there’s an avalanche of BDSM-themed sex toys that you achieve orgasm with toe-curling sensations. If you are a stranger to the world of sex toys, then you might be cruising like a lost ship in the sea－No guidance and no direction. However, if you want to take the first step, you can experience the exquisite pleasure of BDSM with Spanking paddles. 

This post is about how to choose and use erotic spanking bondage toys to add your pleasure during making love. Having discussed spanking paddles as a fetish, making so many people indulge in it. Combined with a different type of erogenous zone, you can experience exquisite pleasure. Let’s focus on the different items that can be used to deliver a good spanking. So starting with paddles — a common toy prevail among lots of people. But still many people are not familiar the way to use it with a partner. Here are the details about the use of tutorial.
 

An impressive win-win experience

Of all the spanking implements, erotic spanking paddles are definitely the easiest for a person to handle, and for a new spankee to get used to. Who doesn’t love a good leather paddle for a spanking? Whether over-the-knee(OTK) or bent over a table or a bed. From the POV of the Dominant, the long handle and delicate head mean it’s easier to land each blow in its intended spot, Which leads to intense sexual pleasure for them. For the submissive, the surface distributes the sensation over a specific or a large area, leading to a deeper and comfortable feeling. 
 

Let’s start paddling (Safety Tolerance Slowness)

Now it’s the central part of this lesson. First of all, for the sake of the security, a good paddling will be limited to the bum cheeks and around the top of the thighs while avoiding nearby danger zones like the kidneys and spine. It is of great importance because misplaced thwacks can end with you or your partners seriously injured. Once you have identified the ideal spot, the Top should warm the bottom’s derriere with a few hand spanks. Lighter hand spanks to get the blood pumping means the area will be primed and receptive. Here’s another important thing, you should start by understanding your pain tolerance. As you explore, start with less painful spanks and ramp it up slowly. If the spankee gives the green light to go harder and harder, steadily build up the intensity. Remember to give the submissive break, and always listen for their green, yellow and red cues. You should bear in mind that the slowness of discovery will make the pleasure more and more enjoyable.

A paddle may have just found its way into your fantasy – but this toy’s fun doesn’t end at its associations with classic roleplay scenarios. They’re amazing and you can also combine them with other PLEASURE－vibrators, lingerie or even masturbation into the mix, as combining both pleasure and pain together can be an enjoyable experience. For people who enjoy music when making love, here is another tip, try using erotic audio or use ASM. Because this kind of erotica can also increase the pleasure and get the endorphins flowing, which makes the whole process more exciting and comfortable. Explore your favorite position together whether it’s dog style or OTK spanking, just try to follow your feelings.
 

Different strokes for different folks

Be brave enough to pursue your fantasies, and talk about it. With many spanking paddles with different styles and sizes, there must be one that can meet your needs.

- Leather Spanking Paddle With Non Slip Wooden Handle
- Women Naughty Whip TPE Accessory
- SM Premium Spanking Paddle
- Metal Rivets Chain Whip Flogger for Spanking Flirting Fantasy Fetish þAcrylic Handle Sex Toy
- 24 Inch Double Layered Premium SM Leather Whip
- 16inch Flogger for Adult Sex Play Whip Black Whip for Cosplay
- XOXO12 Inch Spanking Paddle

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This article was edited by Wendy Wang.